neonbuck:

herbertwestapologist:

this one time i remember seeing someone say (to paraphrase) ‘don’t ask people to let you know if you fuck up because that’s putting the emphasis on them to call you out rather than on you to Not Be Shit in the first place’ and fuck that honestly?? we’re all flawed human beings with varying views and experiences so we all rely on feedback from others. would be a whole lot happier with someone dropping me an ask like ‘you might wanna rethink this’ or ‘what did you mean by [x]’ than silently screencapping it for a callout post or some shit. even the nicest people didn’t bust out the womb clutching an unabridged copy of Not Fucking Up for Dummies so we just have to learn from our mistakes

this comes with an important caveat: you have to take constructive criticism calmly and well, and COMMIT to change. it’s a skill to work on, but it’s one of the most important ones there is.

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