fckin:

fckin:

not to be problematique but from what i see and hear on here the majority of self identifying asexuals aren’t actually asexual and are just experiencing internalized homophobia or are generally insecure and scared of the idea of having sex which is like …. normal. like i see so many gay people on here calling themselves ace cause they wanna kiss and hold their bfs/gfs but not have sex w/ them cause ew that’s icky and dirty and gross but never stop to think critically about why they feel that way. or “i don’t like having sex because i feel weird during and after” like perhaps maybe that’s because sex is weird and uncomfortable when you’re insecure about yourself and your body. just a thought

you think you’re taking a step forward by pushing this kind of behavior and way of thinking onto others but you’re actually taking three steps back like there are quite literally a million reasons why a person might feel uncomfortable with the idea of sex ESPECIALLY if they are trans/gay (which is a large percentage of this website) that doesn’t involve these micro identities like asexual or litho or whatever else y'all made up yesterday instead of letting these people grow and look inside themselves you’re keeping them stuck in the same place and telling them not to think about why they feel that way

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